In times of sorrow and loss, there exists a timeless tradition that crosses through the barriers of Culture, Religion, Age and Race- the giving of flowers as a gesture of love and condolences,to those navigating through the complex emotions of a recent sympathy.
Today flowers are used at funerals as a visual expression of our sympathy, grief, love and respect to the deceased, but this was not always the case. In early times, fragrant funeral flowers were placed on and around the casket of the deceased to perfume the area and ward off the smell of the decaying body.
In fact, there is a documented case in a neanderthal gravesite in Iran, of "Shanidar 4" whose grave, dating back to 80,000-60,000BC where there was heads of flowering plants found in his grave.
As a florist deeply connected to the heart of our community in Aotearoa/New Zealand, we understand the profound significance that flowers hold in the way we process our grief and mourn our loved ones.
Whether it's a simple bouquet of white lilies symbolising purity and peace or a vibrant display of native blooms celebrating a life well-lived, each flower echos words of comfort and compassion.
In the rich tapestry of Māori culture, flowers have long held significance in rituals surrounding death and remembrance. From the graceful harakeke (flax) woven into intricate funeral wreaths to the majestic pōhutukawa adorning memorial sites, indigenous flora intertwines with tradition, honoring the journey of those who have passed and offering solace to the grieving whānau (family).
As Kiwis, we understand the importance of community and connection, and sending flowers is our way of wrapping our arms around those who need it most, even when physical distance separates us.
Additionally, it's essential to recognize that it's not always possible to be there in person to grieve with the family. In such instances, sending flowers becomes even more poignant, as it signifies our presence in spirit, our shared sorrow, and our unwavering support during their time of need.
At Amy’s Flowers, we take great pride in curating arrangements that speak to the depth of human emotion, crafted with care and reverence for the journey they will undertake.
So, why send flowers at a time of sympathy???
In times of loss, let us unite in the simple yet profound act of sending flowers, for in doing so, we honour the past, comfort the present, and sow the seeds of hope for tomorrow.
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Noho ora mai,
The team at Amy’s Flowers